2 January 2012
The Importance of Tamarah Lynn Infantino’s Urn and the Memories behind It
In this Urn holds the ashes of a special person in my life, which is my mother Tamarah Lynn Infantino. Even though she is not around in person, the time that I have spent with her was meaningful and made me who I am today. My mother’s Urn is a very important object in my life; it has many memories behind it, good and bad. Tamarah Lynn Infantino’s Urn is placed on the mantle in the dining room at my grandparents’ house. On top of it is placed a candle with her name on it and two angels that represent me and my sister.
Throughout my mother’s life she had suffered from horrible headaches and she did not realize how bad they can get and what can happen to her or expect anything bad to go wrong. So she didn’t worry about them as much as she should have. All of a sudden her headaches became more severe and she was rushed to the hospital but she didn’t make it. What caused her to die so suddenly was a Brain Aneurysm. A Brain Aneurysm is often discovered when they rupture, causing bleeding into the brain or the space closely surrounding the brain called the subarachnoid space, causing a subarachnoid hemorrhage; Which can lead to a hemorrhage stroke or death.
My Mother Tamarah Lynn Infantino was born December 5th 1972 and her life ended January 30th 1999. She died at the age of 27 years old. When she died I was 5 years old and my sister was 2 years old. It has been thirteen years that she has left us. After this tragedy happened it was hard on my grandmother, my grandfather, me and my sister. Also, after she had died my grandparents got custody of us because my father was never in the picture. Growing up without both parents in my life was hard but my grandparents were always there for me and my sister since day one.
The Urn that sits on the Mantle in the dining room of my grandparents’ house is an important object and holds...